Do’s & Dont’s for First Date

Posted by admin | Dating Tips, Tips for Men, Tips for Women | Sunday 3 May 2009 8:35 pm

Most of them would be shy and inexperienced on their first date. Certain actions may give them embarrassment. Here are some of the pointers to help you to put yourself in the most attractive way.

Do’s

• Be punctual. It indicates that you are serious and committed.
• Try to make your partner to be comfortable as this is a good way to earn attraction
• Prepare yourself on what to speak. Do not make boredom speeches the whole day.
• Be caring and laugh for their jokes even if you have heard it at least 100 times.
• Make the session interesting and avoid dreaded silence as both of them may start feeling the other is boring.
• Take the partner to a very romantic place and let it be unique
• Be confident and project yourself in the best way. Try to have fun and humor.

Dont’s

• Never be late for the first date.
• Do not blow your own trumpet round the clock. Let your partner speak and listen even though they may be boring.
• Be careful in revealing your ex relationship. It may leave a bad impression on you.
• Stick to the basic manners while eating and in other actions. Your date is watching you.
• Let the first date be to understand each other and do not keep on fire with the questions.
• Do not be intimidated. Do not try to project yourself to be some other.
• Do not force your partner too often for any matter it may concern.
• Do not get drunk if your partner does not like it. This may not help you in understanding better on the first date.

If one can follow these tips, am sure one can definitely make an impression. Have a happy first date.

Meeting With a Stranger

Posted by admin | Online Dating, Tips for Women | Sunday 3 May 2009 8:30 pm

Everybody would have a shivering thought during the first meeting with a guy. There can be running thoughts hovering your body. “What if I do not like him or what if I like and he does not like me?” These are very simple questions that can be handled with a common sense. While meeting with a stranger, just follow these tips.

Be Open Minded: Do not assume anything. Do not pre-judge a person before the meeting. If the partner is not up to your expectation, it may hurt you emotionally. So be open and never presume things. Be careful to have your first date as simple as possible. If anything happens against your wish or thoughts, you might escape easily. Hence, it is essential to plan the first to be simple during the lunch hour or in a coffee shop. Be ready to accept the facts.

Play a safe game

It is important to let your friends know about your dating timings and place. Intimate them to call you after half an hour of the meeting so that if you do not like the guy, you can simply excuse yourself to leave the place. In case if you like the guy, you can tell your friends to speak later and continue your session. This is one way to exit safely. You can also have much more reasons to leave the place if you are not comfortable.

Being Yourself

It is important to be casual or to live your character on the day of first day. There is no need to hide any of your actions. Do not act different. This may play a spoilsport later. One can be happy with the partner only if they understand and are ready to accept him as they are. One cannot hide his nature and true character for a long time.

Do not be sorry

It is always better to be safe rather being sorry later. Know your limitations on the first date and do not give any chances for misbehaving. Be clear in what you want. Hence preferring a public place is quite advisable.

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