(1) Never show extra eagerness to meet. It is important for you to understand a basic thing that if you show your extra eagerness to meet a woman then she would be annoyed. The chances are very high that she has seen many people in her life who are ready to buy anything for her and they just like to talk with her continuously.

(2) Choose venues that are sporty and exciting, such as ski holidays or an amusement parks. This will bring you closer to each other.

(3) Some women like to see your confidence. They will act in that specific way which they are actually not. They just want to see the level of your confidence. Remember that women like ambitious people, not those types of people who cannot stay on their talks.

(4) Women like those men who possess leadership qualities. If you ask women that what she want to do in her life, then the chances are very high that she will not like this question. They want a man who is a decision maker. It is necessary to respect her feelings but if you ask many questions then she will surely not like it.

(5) It is important for you to keep in mind that you should not try something extra to catch her attention. It will look odd and she will not respect you.

These are some basic things which you should remember for a successful relation. You should remember these things. It can help you to get success and you can win her confidence.

Women Do Not Want Insensitive Men: – It is a proven fact that guys are provoked by physical stimulation and girls by mental stimulation. If you want your dream girl to fall on love with you, you must go with emotional appeal. Appreciate her inner qualities and not jut her beautiful body and outer looks. Girls always like appreciation of whatever kind. Also you must appreciate her positive attitude and intelligence; this would make an impression of your trustfulness in her eyes and heart. She must be able to see that trust in your eyes which she was searching for or dreaming from a long time.

Women Do Not Want Men Who Cannot Understand Their Needs :-Try to understand their needs because girls do not expect it from boys. Do every thing which touches her heart from the bottom. This is now innovation which differs from person to person.

Women Simply Want to Be Loved :- Try to be in romantic mood especially on dates as girls always searches this love in your eyes and this matters a lot on occasions. Give her small tokens of love like holding her hands while walking, give her small gifts which suit her personality, cuddle her and etc. These things will carry your relationship a long way.

Never say lie to her which sometimes when caught throws you at awkward situation. Be trustworthy as girls want their partners to be very honest with them.

Improve Your Appearance : – Try to be well groomed and show positive attitude which must reflect from your body language. So when you are dressed in ugly manner or dirty dress you wash away every chance of getting attraction. If you do not have dressing style, ask from a fashion designer who probably can help you much better in this respect or you can also take help from your close friends as they know what suits on you. Do every thing which can make you noticeable in eyes of girls such as look for trendy dresses and accessories, good hair style which may resembles to some celebrity or anything which distinguishes you from crowd.

Have a Game with Destiny : – Many girls have grown reading novels, romantic flicks and destiny so they believe in Soul-mates. If some girl tells you some story about the places she visited then tell her that you have been to that place and that this is the destiny and fate which has brought them closer and together. This will built a deep relationship and she will start thinker more of you as if she knows you from a long time.

Try Innovative Dating :- When she is finally with you for a date then do not bore her by talking of yourself only and stop predicting her instead try to appreciate her which ever girls likes. Ask your imagination a place for date you wanted from long time apart from boring places like halls, restaurants, pubs, clubs etc. Be innovative in selecting a place. Give her a present which she could remember her whole life. This will impress her and keep interest in you.

You must do a research of your dates likes and dislikes which would also refresh you some conversational topics. You must know your date’s hobbies, which sport she likes, what music she likes or what instrument she likes to play, what kind of movies she likes to prefer, what places she enjoys and etc. This makes are feel that how concerned are you! All this information is enough for chatting for hours or even days.

It is sometimes not possible to know about the details so here the pre –planned conversation will do work for you. You can chat about funny things which you observed recently in office or at any place; you can chat about movies you both have seen recently or any other amusing experience. Just keep opening the gates of conversation which opens the doors of close relationships.

Give compliments to your partner as very one of us like to be complimented specially girls. You can always do some innocent flirting while complimenting your partner.

Thus  If you are not having any experience of dating you must do some exercise of preplanned conversation to avoid  silences  and should  be up to date with current affairs  so that you are not boring .To end any date few minutes silence is enough to do it so avoid silences.

1. Get some good clothes that suit you especially shoes which are the important part of dress. Girls really appreciate if your choice is good.

2. Get a good hair style from a barber .Get clean shaved and be fresh and vibrant.

3. You must have a job for your earning, as girls look for security .They appreciate if some one has good ambition in life. You must be aware of your future plans as woman is interested in boy’s future prospects.

4. You must keep yourself up to date with current events so that you can participate in any topic at any time and even can discuss some issue .This makes your personality dynamic and influencing. Also you must not be boring so this is important from that aspect.

5. Quit smoking now .Girls never like Smokers.

6. Be a patient guy; listen to your partner on date not just talking of yourself. Also it should not just one -sided show.

7. You should not expect sex on first date .If you are only all about sex it is the wrong place; if you are going to find a girl of your life or your dream girl, then spit sex from mind.

8. You must know how to dance, girls like to dance with their dates so that they can come closer to their partners to understand them. Join some dancing classes such as salsa or ballroom classes

9. And at last start your approach towards dating; join local dating services, regional internet dating service such as USA dating, Canada dating etc.

Be confident while dating and you are no way superior to others. Make your presentation in an acceptable way. Speak humbly and not be rude. Be polite in while conveying and add humor. Having a fun part is very essential. If the physical attraction is good, then there develops a positive relationship and both will start exchanging good terms. It creates a good chemistry. While if physical attraction is not up to the mark, then it may dilate the thoughts of your partner and the relationship will end up nowhere.

The initial stages in dating are all about looks. One can remain a foolish not following this universal truth. It is all about inspiring your partner. The hair style, lips, eyes, the way they fondle with the glass, fingers, they way they walk are all a part of attracting the mate. If you are not confident with yourself, take your time out and do an inventory on yourself to cope up with the issues as it is a universal truth that physical attraction attracts the most.

You may have over expectations which may exceed reality. In that case, just sit back and give a second thought to it. Be practical and accept practicality. But do not forfeit your ambitious goals.

Life is full of ups and downs. And nothing is perfect in this world. One has to learn to compromise. Compromise helps in better understanding.

Have a defined and matured thought on what you expect and what you think on how your soul mate should be. Most of the people do not know to answer when asked to define their soul mate.

Women have a deep and serious thinking in selecting their soul mate. They expect a lot from men. When asked to define “The One”, a girl friend said, “mind you, we have a lot more to lose which is why we harp on about the ‘one’. Well, you know about the biological clock, well we have to invest time to find out about a guy to see if he worth our while.” It becomes vivid that women are expecting a perfect man to share their personal life.

Remember that no one is perfect in this world. Over expectations and not getting adjusted to situations can make your life bizarre. There is surely a soul mate for everybody in this world.

In selling yourself, the first instinct is very important. It is nothing but your looks. A person is best judged on his first sight. Thoughts can be pre-occupied about the person. Wear your best clothes and be handsome. Building image is the next best thing. One has to have a clean shave, proper hair cut on the first date. Reduce your belly. Be fit going to the gym. A body with great muscles might give you charm and you will believe in yourself than ever before.

Make your move now to make the deal. Unless you join clubs, attend social parties, meet people, nobody is going to be impressed. Take the initiative to meet people and speak. Add humor and fun while speaking. Be precise in what you speak. This might give a better impression. Meeting more number of people will help you in gaining the knowledge about the demands. You can redeem yourself for the pertaining conditions. You will land up now-here rather than no-where with such a booster confidence. Always keep your ears wide open and better listen to others. Learn to be simple and modest. Add fun and humor in your talk. Be happy for what you are and try to learn the successful formula and copy them. All these tips will assist you in getting your soul mate and the most important trait to have is to believe in yourself.

Take some time in understanding each others need. If you feel that you are not comfortable in the relationship, you can always quit. As there is nothing so personal, you can always quit it. Do not always try to spare people and you may end up in frustration always. Do not always think about what the partner will think about you? Do not give room to such thoughts. They might destroy your unsullied thoughts. It will make you forget the purpose of the date.

Being too picky is not good in life. And stop lying to yourself thinking this person is better than nobody. Then you will end nowhere in life. Be genuine to your thoughts and be open. Do not think they may be hurted or feel bad. If they do so, then you are not the right person for them. Express yourself clearly on your expectations on the first date. This is important to find the right person to date. This habit will keep you motivated to choose the right person until you find them.

Do’s

• Be punctual. It indicates that you are serious and committed.
• Try to make your partner to be comfortable as this is a good way to earn attraction
• Prepare yourself on what to speak. Do not make boredom speeches the whole day.
• Be caring and laugh for their jokes even if you have heard it at least 100 times.
• Make the session interesting and avoid dreaded silence as both of them may start feeling the other is boring.
• Take the partner to a very romantic place and let it be unique
• Be confident and project yourself in the best way. Try to have fun and humor.

Dont’s

• Never be late for the first date.
• Do not blow your own trumpet round the clock. Let your partner speak and listen even though they may be boring.
• Be careful in revealing your ex relationship. It may leave a bad impression on you.
• Stick to the basic manners while eating and in other actions. Your date is watching you.
• Let the first date be to understand each other and do not keep on fire with the questions.
• Do not be intimidated. Do not try to project yourself to be some other.
• Do not force your partner too often for any matter it may concern.
• Do not get drunk if your partner does not like it. This may not help you in understanding better on the first date.

If one can follow these tips, am sure one can definitely make an impression. Have a happy first date.